How to prep for you boudoir session: The creative boudoir photoshoot guide

My goal with every boudoir photo session is simple: to make it fun, empowering, and relaxed - no matter how you feel in front of a camera. I love working with clients to create boudoir sessions that feel personal for whatever season of life or milestone you want to celebrate.

So how do we craft that personal boudoir experience? And what should you know going into your boudoir shoot?

This info is for anyone considering a boudoir photo session or photographers looking to get started with boudoir photography.

Mood Boards: Your boudoir session blueprint

One of the first things we’ll do when you book a boudoir shoot? Make a mood board.

I send every client at least one mood board before the boudoir shoot, so we have a clear creative direction going into the session, and it gives us something to refer back to when we get stumped in the moment.

This is the best way to get on the same page and hyped for your boudoir session. We’ll pull inspiration for poses, lighting, styling, and editing vibe. Literally whatever speaks to you - toss it on the mood board. The inspiration doesn't have to come from photos or Pinterest - look through magazines, sculptures, movie stills, the gardens in your neighborhood. The more you can pull inspiration from a range of sources - whether it's colors, shapes, posing, prop ideas, or general mood - the more unique and personal your boudoir shoot will be.

The following are a samples of previous mood boards I've sent to clients for boudoir sessions (all images sourced from stock sites & Pinterest).

Creative boudoir concepts I'm obsessed with

Not sure what kind of boudoir shoot you want yet? No worries, I’ve got a running list of ideas that I’m dying to bring to life. Some past faves (and dream concepts) include:

• Sexy PJs at home on film: I'm obsessed with this vibe always. Just you in your natural element, enjoying a quiet intimate moment in your own space. Maybe sipping a coffee, journaling, or doing your makeup.

• House wife gone bad: Vintage appliances & lingerie with a naughty spin (think: lighting your cig on the kitchen burner)

• High fashion fruits or florals: High contrast lighting, minimal props, pops of color

• Wood nymph or fairy: Ethereal vibes in the woods with a lantern or candles, near an Oregon waterfall

• Sea siren on the coast: Moody blue hour boudoir shoot on the Oregon Coast. Plz.

• Outdoor living room: Picture that scene from True Blood when Jason and Amy are on V, in bed, outside, in the rain - basically a cozy living room or bedroom scene in an unlikely setting (outside)

• Creepy couples boudoir shoot: Flash photos and unusual posing - perfect for spooky season vibes

  
  

Boudoir photoshoot locations in Portland, OR

One of my favorite things about boudoir photography is that we can shoot literally anywhere. Whether you want clean studio vibes, an outdoorsy escape, or something a little different, we’ll figure out the best spot based on your vision, comfort level, and budget.

For indoor shoots, there are a few great local studio spaces like boudoir sessions at New Wave Studio or Studio Northwest. Renting a cute Airbnb or snagging a room at a luxe spot like The Hoxton can also make for amazing boudoir photos.

But one of my favorite boudoir photoshoot locations is always in your own home. It's where you feel most comfortable and your personal space makes a great backdrop for intimate boudoir photos. You can also use the most of your environment in your own home, and those laid back getting ready moments can make for amazing intimate lifestyle and boudoir photos.

If you’re feeling outdoorsy? We’ve got endless PNW options. A Forest Park boudoir photoshoot is a classic - it's super lush and surprisingly private for being right in town. Want to level it up? We can head out to Latourell Falls or Wahkeena Falls in the Columbia River Gorge for something wild and dreamy, and surprisingly private (pro tip: early mornings = fewer people). Check out this Oregon waterfall elopement guide for even more waterfall location ideas around Portland.

Bagby Hot Springs is an adventurous pick if you're down for a little hike & steamy vibes, and spots along the Clackamas River or Sauvie Island can give a laid-back, summery feel without having to travel too far from Portland.

Boudoir props: What should you include in your boudoir shoot?

Props are probably my favorite part of a shoot because they tell a story. Want to bring candles? A stack of magazines? Your favorite mug, blanket, or vinyl records? Hell yes. These are the little touches that add layers of personality and make your photos feel even more personal.

Depending on which boudoir photo package you book, we'll have anywhere from 1-4 shooting hours to get the shots. And that time can also be used to style outfits or play with props and (these can make for some of the best photos).

Here are a few of the most popular boudoir props to get your ideas spinning:

• Jewelry (think long pearls)

• Flowy scarves & shawls

• Flowers & leaves

• Blankets, robes, sheets & curtains

• Coffee mug

A few of my other fav boudoir prop ideas that are a little out of the box:

• Glass panels (so good for shooting through)

• Wind machine & fog spray

• Fruit / candy / anything JUICY

• Sheer gloves (honestly looks AMAZING)

• Ashtray / lighter / cigarette holder (anything vintage tbh)

• Skulls or bones (for dark moody energy)

What to wear to your boudoir session

Here’s the thing: boudoir shoot outfits can be anything. Lace and garters? Great. Oversized t-shirt and nothing else? Also great. I always recommend bringing a few different options, including layers you can mix and match (think: oversized button-downs, sheer fabrics, blankets, any sexy lingerie sets you want to try out). Or ditch the clothes all together and embrace the nudity.

Not comfortable being fully nude? That's absolutely fine, and we can always create a sexy look while staying more modest and covered up. We'll always structure the session around your comfort level - we'll typically start with whatever look or outfit you feel most comfortable and get more adventurous from there.

And hot tip: robes are your best friend. Sheer, silky, fluffy - whatever your vibe, they add texture and look amazing on camera. And they're perfect to chill in while you're taking breaks between outfits.

Boudoir shoot day: Making the most of the experience

Honestly I think you should treat the day of your boudoir session like it's your birthday (bonus points if it's actually your birthday). Spend a long time getting ready in the morning while you sip a mimosa, blast your favorite pump-up album, get your nails done, or book a hair/makeup appointment - whatever gets you in the vibe of feeling yourself.

We’ll ease into things so you can get comfortable on camera before hitting the full Burt Reynolds. And don’t worry if you’re not a pro at posing (literally who is?). My job is to guide you through these boudoir sessions with a mix of candid prompts and simple, specific direction. That means I'll have you go through easy movements (like sitting on the chair or laying on the bed), and I'll guide you through natural poses, like running a hand through your hair, or adjusting your shirt buttons in front of a mirror.

We'll refer back to the mood board for posing ideas and experiment with props, setup, and styling. We'll take as many breaks, outfit changes, and setting tweaks as we need throughout the session.

How to pose for your boudoir photoshoot: A mix of candid and directed portraits

You don’t have to know how to “pose” - that’s my job. I have a lineup of boudoir poses and simple prompts that’ll help you feel relaxed and confident, even if you start the session not knowing where to put your hands. We’ll mix up candid, documentary-style shots with more structured poses, depending on the vibe you want.

Some of my favorite boudoir poses? Leaning back in a chair, peeking at the camera over a shoulder, lounging in bed sheets, or catching your reflection in a steamy bathroom mirror. We’ll also reference your mood board throughout, so we’re never scrambling for posing inspo.

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Boudoir Photography FAQs

How much does a Portland boudoir photoshoot cost?

My boudoir photo packages start at $650 for a 1-hour Classic Session or $950 for a 2-hour Full Session.

Do I have to wear lingerie for my boudoir shoot?

Nope! Boudoir is about you feeling good, period. Lingerie is a classic option, but you can wear literally anything that makes you feel hot and confident. We’ll chat about outfit ideas during your planning process.

Do you offer bridal boudoir for newlyweds or engaged people?

Yes! I love wedding boudoir and offer sessions for all engaged people and newlyweds. Surprise your lover with a spicy wedding gift they'll never forget.

Can I bring my partner to my boudoir shoot?

Yes! Whether you want your partner there for moral support or want to get them in on the shots, we'll make it work. Couples boudoir can also be super fun and intimate - just let me know ahead of time if you’re thinking about adding a partner to your session.

Will you share my boudoir photos online?

I'll never share any of your photos without your explicit permission. Some clients are excited to share their photos (which I love), but many prefer to keep them private (and that’s 100% ok too, and always respected). If you do decide to give permission for sharing, we’ll always agree on exactly which images are OK to post.

Do you offer professional hair and makeup?

I don’t include it automatically, but I love working with stylists for boudoir shoots. Professional hair and makeup can make a huge difference in both how you feel and how the photos turn out. I have a list of awesome local hair/makeup artists I love working with, and I’m happy to help coordinate that.

When’s the best time to book a boudoir session?

Most people book 1–2 months in advance, but I suggest reaching out as early as possible if you have a specific date or occasion in mind (like a wedding gift or birthday surprise). Bonus tip: If you want to give a physical boudoir album as a gift, book at least 4–6 weeks out to allow time for printing.

Why book a boudoir photoshoot?

Boudoir photos are a celebration of self love and there is no bad time for that. Whether you’re celebrating a milestone, marking a new chapter (hello, maternity or post-breakup glow-up), or just want a confidence boost, boudoir is a killer way to honor where you are right now.

In summary: life's short, you're hot.

Book the damn shoot.